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Prasanth
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 4:01 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

yeah pandakku potunnaa ...tenali lo ellundi house warming fn...ippinchaadule kaleswari travels lo ticket...anna influence aa majaaka....
people good to u may not be good actually!
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Kingchoudary
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 3:59 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

Prasu gaa pandakki intiki pothundavaa? ticket diorakaledaa....

Thokkodaa nee car theesukoni mana Prasu gaadi ni yekkinchukoni vellu vaadu ticket dubbulu neeku isthadule...
KC ante Konidela Chiranjeevi kaadhu, King Choudary.... No KC no fun, Know KC know fun ....
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Prasanth
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 3:57 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

avunu nijamgaane ticket dorikindaa....ee option pettukoni ninna chaala sodhi cheppaav..elaa ipudu ani...

repu office nundi directga vastaale
people good to u may not be good actually!
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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 3:56 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

10k endi raa... 100k teesukoo... katta katti papistaa... goki chaala rojulaindi...!!!
Ullasam ga... Utsaham gaa...
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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 3:55 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

abhe kutte bus repu night raa.. ippati nunche bus-stand kelli yemi peekutav... sodi nayala...
Ullasam ga... Utsaham gaa...
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Kingchoudary
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 3:54 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

Reyy Thokkodaa urgent gaa oka 10k pampu bey, party chesukuntanu....
KC ante Konidela Chiranjeevi kaadhu, King Choudary.... No KC no fun, Know KC know fun ....
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Prasanth
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 3:47 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP


people good to u may not be good actually!
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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 3:41 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

bosh-dk
Ullasam ga... Utsaham gaa...
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Kingchoudary
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 3:02 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

Thokkodaa avunaa papam, yendhukanagaa?
KC ante Konidela Chiranjeevi kaadhu, King Choudary.... No KC no fun, Know KC know fun ....
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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:58 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

http://www.telugupeople.com/news/multinewsnew.aspx ?newsid=42132&page=1&catid=59


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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:53 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

KC gaa.. mee satya lo vunde oka pori ni peeki nookaru monna last week... appudeppudooo nuvvu search chesaave nee database lo... aaa porini... fireeeeeeeeeeeee....
Ullasam ga... Utsaham gaa...
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Kingchoudary
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:52 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

Thokka gaa naakanna 1 year pedha mundavadivi neeku leni durada naakela cheppu....
KC ante Konidela Chiranjeevi kaadhu, King Choudary.... No KC no fun, Know KC know fun ....
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Kingchoudary
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:50 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

Yem bey yethu palla Thokka aa, piyya thinavaa lunch ki....
KC ante Konidela Chiranjeevi kaadhu, King Choudary.... No KC no fun, Know KC know fun ....
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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:49 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

KC gaa... mada gallalo eppudu join avutunnav...??? Oct 10 nunchi manchi mugurthaalu vunnai ta kada... cheriporaadu... inka ettago pelli petaakulu levu kada!!!
Ullasam ga... Utsaham gaa...
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Kingchoudary
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:49 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

Reyyy thokkaa gaa raraa nee yabba yethu pallodaa....
KC ante Konidela Chiranjeevi kaadhu, King Choudary.... No KC no fun, Know KC know fun ....
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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:48 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP


Ullasam ga... Utsaham gaa...
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Maanas
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:47 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

dada varu missing enti boring life
We Have Arrived!!!
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Maanas
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:46 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP


Peekavle_tokka :




thokka ga mathonmadhi , premonmadhi nunchi promotion kottesavu thokka ga
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Kingchoudary
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:43 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

Yeraa Thokkodaa nee yabba rey neekanna bokulu yemi kadu kadaraa Thuraks....
KC ante Konidela Chiranjeevi kaadhu, King Choudary.... No KC no fun, Know KC know fun ....
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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:43 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

stroy pettindi... saduvuku chaavamani... ante kaani... nammandi ani kaadu... yerri puvvaa...!!!
Ullasam ga... Utsaham gaa...
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:39 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

ilanti pitcha story lu nammuthaava thokka ga
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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:38 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

vijayawada ke bhe... kutte...
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Prasanth
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:35 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

tokkai inthakee repati ticket guntur kaa vja kaa...
people good to u may not be good actually!
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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:32 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

turakodini pelli chesukovaadu ani...
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Rangupadudhi
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:26 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

gist cheppu thokka baa
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Peekavle_tokka
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Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 - 2:22 am:Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IP

This is my experience in my life. I wanted say to every girl who wanted to marry a Muslim man to think twice before marry. Please, if you are involved with one of these guys think twice --Don’t just jump like me. I’m not saying all other religion men are good … there are good and bad in all religions. This is about my life with a Muslim hub.

I know after reading my article, many muslims or others may argue with me saying that this is not in all families or we are very royal and broad minded bla bla bla… who cares! What ever you are to the outer world……… you are always same inside!. Or 90% of them are like this! And this is very TRUE! I don’t want to listen your lectures!

Looking back to my college days, I first met this guy, who was very charming, and full of promises (which are of course all lies). I felt that yes… he is the one for me. I almost argued and lost every thing for him. I ignored my family’s pain and troubles I was giving them. All I had in my mind was love and love. To marry him, I even threatened my parents, and lot more which cannot be put in words. Emotions played a major role and my parents kept quit since I were a major. He converted me to Islam, giving me a new name, saying it’s the important thing to get the support or affection of his family.

I did that since he promised me that it will remain only on papers and will never affect me personally. (Lie again). Then the marriage, was very simple with few friends. I along with my some friends sat in a room, with all giggles and excited when a man came in and made me say “khubool hain” 3 times, and gave me some papers to sign and that’s it, he said Mubarak .. you got married. I said oh that’s all!! This is so easy and all my friends laughed. (There are no promises and nothing) that day.. I never ever thought about what I was doing.

Before I can relize I’ve already stepped into a cluster of thorns. The first two months were sweet. And then the real life started. My in-laws, first opposed and then they accepted since my husband has converted me to Islam. I started to do everything what they say just out of love for him. I started accepting my life as it came by. I have chosen this life and I decided to prove everyone that I didn’t do a mistake and wanted to be a good and faithful wife.

I started to accept them for what they are and finding the good in them and learn to love people who have nothing in common with me. My in-laws and husband gave a lot of book regarding Islam written in English. They started teachings about women and Islam, regulating me from what kind of food I should eat and what type of attire I should wear and what kind of people I should make friends with etc.

That was my first shock. I don’t have any choice. There is no request, everything is a command. I was ordered to cover my head and use a burkah when going out. It was so akward but still I kept quit. I were not allowed to do anything of my wish, coz Islam dose not allow a women to decide. Everything was done according to man’s wish. I cannot do this, I cannot do that, I cannot go alone anywhere. It was like a closed life in a free world. If we go to out on picnics, we cannot eat at good restaurants, since they belong to kafirs.

Though the hotel is very filthy and covered with flies and dirt, still we have to eat only at certain restaurants where they think they sell halaal meat. (they think that only these hotels have a Halaal meat) no matter how dirty they cook. Due to this I avoided going out. Slowly they ordered me to avoid my entire family, since they are kafirs? (A non Muslims) Today, I realize what a shameful act I have done.

As time passed my husband has become more inclined towards religion. He forgot his promises, his words. Says that women are born to serve men. The place of women is within four walls. They are not allowed to speak up. I never saw this side of him earlier. Men are allowed to do anything but not to be questioned. Some women never know where their men go and what they do outside.

Slowly he became jealous person and reads into any and all association with other men as suspicious. He is unable to understand that I gave up more for him and I would never cheat on him. I am now seeing that there are too many differences to overcome and allow for a peaceful existence. They are always commenting on others. Specially the festivals and attires of other cultures. He is cruel, demanding everything and abusive. It only brought me tears and sorrow. There is no respect for women.

Islam allows man to beat his wife. He can demand anything and she has to obey no matter in what conditions she is. Man can marry of his choice but women cannot. There are too many restrictions. I am now in a constant fear. I am scared to speak up. I know what he is capable of when he gets furious. I would only have courage to tell him all that if I was far enough from him and he could not physically reach me. I am terrified about the future.

He will put all sort of pressures on my kids to do things I do not approve of, I fear that he might take them away; He might hurt me or do some serious harm to me if I don't agree with him. I want my kids to experience many good things in life, achieve as much as they possibly can and become confident, tolerant and considerate adults. I don't think this will be possible. He demands that he is the one who decides about everything to do with them, but also demands that I confirm everything he says to them and never contradict him.

At some point all the family members are very radical. They are always commenting on other religions, though it makes me very outrageous I have no way except to keep quit. The only thing taught to kids from childhood is that this is the truest, purest and peace loving religion.. And at the same time justifying terrorism and jihad (killing of non Muslims). This religion which claims to be the truest of all, recites an Arabic Prayer (on hearing the death news of their religion member) called “Inna Lillahi Oa Inna Ilahi Rajeon” which means “Allah unhain jannat naseeb karay” and then they recite another Arabic prayer (upon hearing a death news of a Hindu) called Fee nari jahannama khalidin” Which means wishing him the eternal HELL!

How can a religion which claims to be the truest wish so? There are too many things which are very ridiculous. They know they are wrong but they never admit it. When someone tries to speak up they cannot tolerate or bear it. They fear that the truth may come up. And so due to fear... the only thing they can think about is “issuing a FATWA to kill the one who tries to tell the truth to the outside world.

Anyway I am saying only one point to make you understand what sort of distress we undergo. I did this mistake and I will probably pay for the mistake of marrying him for the rest of my life. I don't know if there are legal ways to keep him out of our lives, and I believe it's unlikely. Even if I managed to convince courts and police that he should stay away from us that might not stop him. I'm completely alone, because I could not make friends are allowed to meet my family while being with him.

This is my life... which is going to be like this till the end. I wanted to tell every girl who wanted to marry a Muslim man to think twice before marrying. My advice “PLEASE!!DON’T!”...
Ullasam ga... Utsaham gaa...