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Kubang
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Kubang
Post Number: 24794
Registered: 09-2011
Posted From: 161.141.1.1
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Gochi:my main advice is,don't do the same mistake what parents do in India..ie comparing your kid with other kid and scolding them..deeni valla nayaa paisa upayogam ledhu...they will get more and more demotivated...
+ million..
Ignorance is bliss
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Gochi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Gochi
Post Number: 85507
Registered: 07-2004
Posted From: 8.7.228.252
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 5:06 pm: |
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by mistake lesinattundi edit cheddaamanukunte
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Kichidi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Kichidi
Post Number: 31018
Registered: 02-2010
Posted From: 74.118.96.34
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 4:05 pm: |
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Gochi:charter
meeru kooda charter school ki pampisthunna ani vesi.. leparu kada aa post..
ITALIAN MAFIASO
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Gochi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Gochi
Post Number: 85506
Registered: 07-2004
Posted From: 64.121.82.184
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 4:03 pm: |
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lepaanaa...
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Kichidi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Kichidi
Post Number: 31017
Registered: 02-2010
Posted From: 74.118.96.34
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 3:52 pm: |
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Gochi:
post vesi lepav enti?
ITALIAN MAFIASO
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Gochi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Gochi
Post Number: 85505
Registered: 07-2004
Posted From: 64.121.82.184
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 2:44 pm: |
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Onlyniru3:Sadguru Gochi annai -
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Musicfan
Bewarse Legend
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 53650
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 66.117.193.162
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 2:32 pm: |
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Gochi:.sometimes setting up a higher target helps the kid as well...kaani balanced gaa daanni maintain cheyyadam important...and again this definition of balance is different for each person.
Targets on a 10 year old kid? and punishing for not reaching it?? I haven't seen till now such a thing, so got surprised.
Gochi:chaduvu lo nenu konchem strict, habits lo my wife...
maa intlo opposite, nenu habits meeda focus chesta, moral meeda stress chesta. Chaduvu eppudu focus petti chadivina vastundi, but once habbits are created, changing them is really hard anedi feeling. And same thing, we dont handle kids at same time, okallu matladite inkollu silent or no interference.
Lion Audio Review
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Sakkineni
Kurra Bewarse
Username: Sakkineni
Post Number: 1184
Registered: 04-2012
Posted From: 199.168.151.156
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Musicfan:I guess in one of them the top 5 would go to city level. He was just one short.
Daniki he is now banned from playing outside in the evenings
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Onlyniru3
Censor Bewarse
Username: Onlyniru3
Post Number: 18604
Registered: 08-2009
Posted From: 162.118.16.5
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 2:26 pm: |
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Sadguru Gochi annai -
Continue Continue... Mee pravachanalu baagunnayi...:D
Kuvaaaaaaaay Leonard - The superstar in making...
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Musicfan
Bewarse Legend
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 53649
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 66.117.193.162
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 2:25 pm: |
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Soggadu:Asalu NA lo rankings enti andi? Never heard in USA or in Canada public schools
Ikkada idi school lo kaadu, he is in charter schools ( free schools with different curriculum admission is based on lottery) lo after school they can enroll to many programs run by volunteers some times be teachers. These are like math olympiad, science olmypiad, math bee, spelling bee and so on.. Veetillo tests undi top 5/8/10 kids go to next level depending upon the subject. I guess in one of them the top 5 would go to city level. He was just one short.
Daniki he is now banned from playing outside in the evenings. asalu summer ippude start avutondi, kids want to play in the evening. Vaadu he always says he want to go to public school, he will not have pressure there,and says he doesn't want to go to charter schools.
Lion Audio Review
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Sakkineni
Kurra Bewarse
Username: Sakkineni
Post Number: 1183
Registered: 04-2012
Posted From: 199.168.151.156
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 2:22 pm: |
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Naa class lo nunchi simple Example:
1 classmate JNTU nenu Abv avg student other friend 7 nunchi prathi sari maths lo dinki meeda dinki migatha subjects pass ayithe goppa.
Friend JNTU lo chaduvukuni gatha 3 yrs ga CA lo housewife, Nenu edo consultant ga bathuku saagadeesthuna 3 odiki inter tarvatha MBBS kadithe Ollu degara pettukuni chadivi , ippudu US lo MD kooda over , earning over 200. Aa range sampadana nenu and naa JNTu Friend eppudu choosthamu, asala choosthama leda anedi telvadu. Comparing does nothing any time at all |
Gochi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Gochi
Post Number: 85503
Registered: 07-2004
Posted From: 64.121.82.184
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 2:17 pm: |
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ante ivaala wfh stewie baa...anduke wetcloth esukuni kanapadina topic lo detailedgaa fostings
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Prasanth
Censor Bewarse
Username: Prasanth
Post Number: 73391
Registered: 03-2004
Posted From: 59.144.58.37
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 2:14 pm: |
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Gochi:maa US olla kattaalu neekem thelusu pessi baa...atu india itu US renditlo full gaa kaakunda okko kaalu okko boat lo petti laagisthunnaam journey...school lo vaadedho chepthaadu,homework manalni cheipinchamantaadu...manam shortcuts tho chesi choopisthaa,pillalu ehey dobbeyyi maaku ilaa cheppaledhu antaaru...alaane 10 yrs back india nundi occhi inkaa adhe culture mind lo pettukuni bathukthunnaam...for egjample ikkada thellollu potti potti battalu eskuni thiruguthunte mana desi kids sleevless eskunnnaaa kaani class peekuthaam,kaani ippudu india ki poyi choosthe andaru sleevless....after a while Na Ghar kaa Na ghat kaa type lo undi situation
 
telugu biDDa (staying in bangalore and from vijayawada)
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Gochi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Gochi
Post Number: 85502
Registered: 07-2004
Posted From: 64.121.82.184
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Prasanth:
maa US olla kattaalu neekem thelusu pessi baa...atu india itu US renditlo full gaa kaakunda okko kaalu okko boat lo petti laagisthunnaam journey...school lo vaadedho chepthaadu,homework manalni cheipinchamantaadu...manam shortcuts tho chesi choopisthaa,pillalu ehey dobbeyyi maaku ilaa cheppaledhu antaaru...alaane 10 yrs back india nundi occhi inkaa adhe culture mind lo pettukuni bathukthunnaam...for egjample ikkada thellollu potti potti battalu eskuni thiruguthunte mana desi kids sleevless eskunnnaaa kaani class peekuthaam,kaani ippudu india ki poyi choosthe andaru sleevless....after a while Na Ghar kaa Na ghat kaa type lo undi situation
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Stewie
Kurra Bewarse
Username: Stewie
Post Number: 2939
Registered: 03-2011
Posted From: 66.151.13.191
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Gochi:
Mastaru meeru enti inni clasulu peekuthunnaru..
Parenting lo meeru 
A Famous Quote starts with a... and ends with this.
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Gochi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Gochi
Post Number: 85501
Registered: 07-2004
Posted From: 64.121.82.184
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stressing this again...don't ever compare your kid to the kid next door and hurt them saying look at them and learn...compare cheskovaalante vaalla venakaala cheskondi, mundhu kaadhu....okati rendu saalru naa wife ilaa compare chesthe pedda class peekinaa,after that it never happened...alaane till now eppudu memu hand raise cheyyaledhu kid meedha...thats one policy I will stick on to...chaduvu lo nenu konchem strict, habits lo my wife...so okaru thidithe inkokalla daggariki velthundhi maa ammai...which again I feel is fine...iddaru anni topcs lo vaayisthe they dont have a let out.. |
Prasanth
Censor Bewarse
Username: Prasanth
Post Number: 73390
Registered: 03-2004
Posted From: 59.144.58.37
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telugu biDDa (staying in bangalore and from vijayawada)
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Gochi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Gochi
Post Number: 85500
Registered: 07-2004
Posted From: 64.121.82.184
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naa varaku these are my expectations from my kid:
First and foremost, staying away from bad influences...usualgaa ikkada middle school/high school ki vachesariki start avuthaayi kastaalu...Bullying, drinking,drugs,getting pregnant, addicted to video games, not talking to anyone ado lokam lo unna type..highschool ayyaaka inka nenu dobbalenu,dropout avuthaa ante manam peekedemi ledhu...so always make sure kid is in good friends circle and reinforce the importance of studies and good habits...
Marks konchem itu atu thaggina i don't care...consistent gaa 90% vachedhi okka saari 80's ki vasthe not to worry, but suddengaa 60's ki drop aipoyi alaane continue ayyindhi ante there is a problem that needs to be identified and fixed..
Like everybody else, I too want my kid to get into IVY league schools, we will work towards it but once we realize its getting overboard for the kid, we are ready to drop our expectations...Average gaa chadivesi bachelors finish chesi,if possble masters kooda chesi job lo settle aithe chaalu... |
Soggadu
Kurra Bewarse
Username: Soggadu
Post Number: 2312
Registered: 02-2009
Posted From: 99.250.145.109
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Musicfan:
Asalu NA lo rankings enti andi? Never heard in USA or in Canada public schools. I told my kids that I will not link their play time or anything with how they are doing at school. Also told them studies are for their life while childhood will never comeback and they shall enjoy/have both.
చక్కర కలిపిన తియ్యని తేనెల తోడు పెరుగు తెలుగు
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Gochi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Gochi
Post Number: 85499
Registered: 07-2004
Posted From: 64.121.82.184
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Musicfan:main reason kids potential telvakundaa reasons for not achieving target teliyadu.. does a 10 year old kid deserve such treatment. Of course each kid has his own recipe but parents responsibility is to teach him importance of achieving something but not punish when he fails. Aren't these targets based on own fantasies? How can we as parents punish them for our targets?
evari goals vaallaki untaai rao gaaru...IAS chadivina vaadiki vaadi koduku koodaa vaadilaagaane IAS avvaalani korika...sometimes setting up a higher target helps the kid as well...kaani balanced gaa daanni maintain cheyyadam important...and again this definition of balance is different for each person...if the kid is fine with it and he improves because of this punishment, then it works for them right...alaa kaakunda kid inkaa de-motivate ayyi dobbedithe they will be in deeper trouble...when they are fine to take that risk we don't need to worry.. |
Entrepreneur
Kurra Bewarse
Username: Entrepreneur
Post Number: 1895
Registered: 05-2011
Posted From: 107.77.75.113
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Yeah balanced diversity is important
Ippude add pedda problem trying to find the best school with it
Instead of all desis and every dad being a software engineer
dreams don't work unless you do
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Sakkineni
Kurra Bewarse
Username: Sakkineni
Post Number: 1182
Registered: 04-2012
Posted From: 199.168.151.172
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 1:23 pm: |
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Bewarsegadu:Both r in elementary school - Friends circle and play days lo interaction mostly with local people - ekkada vaalla alavatlu vachesthaayemo ani bhayam - appudappudu planning to shift to place where our desis r more
Just wanted to add to this one. Maa Uncle vallu first lo Desi community lo vundevallu, tarvatha moved to an old community where you find mostly white people. only like 5-6 Desi around some 50-60 Houses. Maa peddodu did really well, His friends and his habits made him think in a different way. Now he is in an A really good school. Maa vaditho paatu maa uncle friends circle batch chala mandi with in desi circles valla kids Kooda manchi univ ki velli akkada thattukoleka malla state university ki vachesaru. I have seen Indian kids who haveare studying in Princeton and went to depression beacause the Pressure cooker system until your at home worked, once you took off to IVY league thattukolekapoyaru. Maa peddodu is now trying to get an intern in NYC, he may or maynot succed but the effort is much appriciable. This may not be the same with all kani just saying |
Musicfan
Bewarse Legend
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 53647
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 166.137.90.81
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Don:
Aadu edaina avutadu kani I believe guiding a kid to right direction is most important than setting targets..
Lion Audio Review
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Bewarsegadu
Kurra Bewarse
Username: Bewarsegadu
Post Number: 2940
Registered: 03-2013
Posted From: 68.12.229.78
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 12:56 pm: |
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Rao Garu
Me too in same boat
We r living in an old neighborhood where desis are less -
School is good but not rated A+
Sometimes we r getting nervous that lack of competition is making them lazy and lethargic
Both r in elementary school - Friends circle and play days lo interaction mostly with local people - ekkada vaalla alavatlu vachesthaayemo ani bhayam - appudappudu planning to shift to place where our desis r more
Bewarsegadu Fan of Balayya and PK
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Kubang
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Kubang
Post Number: 24787
Registered: 09-2011
Posted From: 161.141.1.1
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Musicfan:Meeru eti antaru?
aa parents need counseling antanu..
Ignorance is bliss
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Musicfan
Bewarse Legend
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 53646
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 166.137.90.81
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Gochi:
Ikkada issue entante I least care about others but ee case lo konchem vintagaa anipinchindi.main reason kids potential telvakundaa reasons for not achieving target teliyadu.. does a 10 year old kid deserve such treatment. Of course each kid has his own recipe but parents responsibility is to teach him importance of achieving something but not punish when he fails. Aren't these targets based on own fantasies? How can we as parents punish them for our targets?
Lion Audio Review
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Gochi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Gochi
Post Number: 85497
Registered: 07-2004
Posted From: 8.7.228.252
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kontha mandhi kids untaaru, aristhe maata vinaru, debba padithene vintaaru...konthamandhi konchem voice raise chesesinaa kalla neelluettukuni feel aipothaaru...mari alaantappudu how can same recipe work for everyone...every kid is different and they have their own abilities
my main advice is,don't do the same mistake what parents do in India..ie comparing your kid with other kid and scolding them..deeni valla nayaa paisa upayogam ledhu...they will get more and more demotivated... |
Gochi
Censor Bewarse
Username: Gochi
Post Number: 85496
Registered: 07-2004
Posted From: 8.7.228.252
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no kaaments...iddaru parents lone they will have conflicts on parenting style and how they want their child to grow up...inka evarno parents ni theeskuni compare cheskuni adhi right aa wrong aa ante we cannot say anything...
I believe your parenting style depends on how you were brought up and your life experiences...nenu chinnappudu iraga chadivevaadni,maa cousins peddagaa podichevaallu kaadhu...end of they day we are all in the same boat..similar jobs,salaries, lifestyle...alaa ani chadavakundaa unte better aa ante I don't know...evadiki thochindhi vaadu follow aipotame...
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Stewie
Kurra Bewarse
Username: Stewie
Post Number: 2938
Registered: 03-2011
Posted From: 66.151.13.191
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Entrepreneur:we need to put them in pressure cooker in undergrad and Grad ani naa feeling
Musicfan: top 5 lo undali ani aa kurrodu 6th vachadanta
Undergrad lo grad lo parents maata anta vinaru naku telisi..
ma father antunde.. okasari line lo paddaka vallaki manam cheppakkarle ani.. but a line lo padataniki first lo struggle avvali..
A Famous Quote starts with a... and ends with this.
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Entrepreneur
Kurra Bewarse
Username: Entrepreneur
Post Number: 1894
Registered: 05-2011
Posted From: 107.77.75.113
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we need to put them in pressure cooker in undergrad and Grad ani naa feeling
Not in middle school and high school
I was taking to 2 diff ppl recently one is a school facilitator and other health care top school districts lo suicides stress depression chala ekkuva anta
Palo Alto where Stanford is located has highest teen suicide rate
dreams don't work unless you do
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Don
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Don
Post Number: 18955
Registered: 12-2004
Posted From: 50.79.124.196
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 11:53 am: |
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mastaru.. ide mukka mee columbus vaasulaki seppandi  |
Gudiwada
Yavvanam Kaatesina Bewarse
Username: Gudiwada
Post Number: 7611
Registered: 11-2004
Posted From: 74.118.96.34
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Musicfan:Ivvala maa rendo vadini school ki drop chestu enti oka neighbor kurrodu adukovataniki evening ravatledu enti ani adigite he cannot come his parents banned him annadu.
Reason enti ante edo target pettarenta top 5 lo undali ani aa kurrodu 6th vachadanta
Maa vodu glad I am not forced like that annadu..
Aa kurrodu chese achievements lo maa vodu 10% kooda undadu.. I don't feel comfortable setting these targets to kids from now itself
Meeru eti antaru?
Correst. balavihar lu maa badi weekend Gudi lanti vi kooda manipincheyyandi. Naaku endukoo elanti vatillo pedithee etu kaakunda pothaaru anipisthundi  |
Don
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Don
Post Number: 18954
Registered: 12-2004
Posted From: 50.79.124.196
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 11:46 am: |
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kontha mandi parents ante rao garu. I cannot be that way, but I also cannot judge them 
repu aa kurrodu ye presidento ayipotaademo.. |
Musicfan
Bewarse Legend
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 53645
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 166.137.90.81
| | Posted on Friday, May 08, 2015 - 11:43 am: |
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Ivvala maa rendo vadini school ki drop chestu enti oka neighbor kurrodu adukovataniki evening ravatledu enti ani adigite he cannot come his parents banned him annadu.
Reason enti ante edo target pettarenta top 5 lo undali ani aa kurrodu 6th vachadanta
Maa vodu glad I am not forced like that annadu..
Aa kurrodu chese achievements lo maa vodu 10% kooda undadu.. I don't feel comfortable setting these targets to kids from now itself
Meeru eti antaru?
Lion Audio Review
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